Relationship Digests

He returned my bride price and I moved on – Update

                      Make it make sense!                                                             ♥♥   I wrote to you a few months ago about my husband returning my bride price and moving a woman into our home. Well, this is just an update on how things turned out. I’ve moved out with my son and the unborn baby; I decided I was going to keep it. Both families met in recent months to talk. Uncles from his side tried to get him to give reasons for what he did, but my ex could n...[Read More]

Love, Coconuts, and Drools

          Love, Coconuts, and drools.                                   ♥♥ When we got married, it was a means to an end. I mean, we didn’t even like each other that much. I met Joe in a “trotro.” I was in the car when he came in, sweating profusely. When I saw him drenched in sweat, I shifted to cover the empty space available so he wouldn’t fill the spot beside me. Our eyes met for a second, and I gave him a scornful look, but he still dragged himself to sit beside me. ...[Read More]

He returned my bride price and moved her into our bed

             Make it make sense!                                                  ♥♥ ​My husband told me he was visiting my folks to pick up our son. – We sent him over to my parents for a vacation. ​ ​Unknowingly, he went there with only one intention- To return my bride price. He succeeded in leaving the items at my parents’ door and came back home without our son. My parents called to ask why he returned the items but he’s been avoiding their calls and I, on the other hand, ...[Read More]

His mother has to go

Make it make sense!              ♥♥ He wants me to tell his mother it’s time to leave. My husband isn’t talking to me right now because I refuse to send his mother away. Why do I have to be the one to tell his mother to leave? She came to visit us last year and has since refused to leave and somehow my husband thinks it’s my responsibility to ask her to. His reason for wanting her gone is – she keeps bothering me about kids. Funny enough, her son is the one with the probl...[Read More]

My mother-in-law said to me: You smell awful

Make it make sense!               ♥♥ Mother-in-law says I stink. She told me this, a day before my wedding to her son. I’ve not been the same ever since. My husband has noticed the change in me and I haven’t been able to bring myself to tell him what happened. – It’s been 3 months since we walked down the aisle and I’ve changed my perfume five times already. The worse part is – she didn’t stop there. When we got back from our honeymoon, she was waiting f...[Read More]

My Fiancée eats too much

  Make it make sense!             ♥♥ My girlfriend overeats! Our wedding has been postponed because I dislike her eating habits. Nasty- as in she eats way too much food. We went out to eat as a family once, and my siblings were laughing at me because she ate everything that night. I was embarrassed, so I whisked her away from that dinner. I love her! – That hasn’t changed, but how do I deal with her terrible eating habits? The wedding is on hold because I can’t see myself ...[Read More]

I think my wife is weird

Make it make sense!                      ♥♥ My wife is weird. –  How weird, doesn’t even make sense. We’ve been on this journey for 8 years now. Two kids together and everything was wrong from the start. Nope!  She wasn’t a virgin. She told me that much. I wanted us to wait when we were dating. She said – “You probably don’t have a manhood.” So, I obliged and we had sex, just one time before we settled down two years after. On our honeymoon –...[Read More]

My Hubby Does Not Want A Vasectomy.

   Make it make sense!                ♥♥ My hubby does not want a vasectomy. We committed to three children and a vasectomy before getting married. Vasectomy because he has a better chance of getting it reversed. But ten years later, he wants a fourth child and refuses to have a vasectomy. We’re fairly content, and a fourth child isn’t an issue here, but his insistence that I get a TBL if I don’t want further children is.   Also read this: Love Me Again– Episode 2 &nb...[Read More]